He popped out of my womb, I was thankful, and I admired him. I then wondered what he would be when he grew up. He’s a sophomore in high school now, and a teen. There seems to be many more priorities that interfere with the concern for higher education today, than when he was younger, and just could not make up his mind “with all the things I could be”.
As a teacher, I preach higher education on a regular basis. It is too often that I hear “ I’ll wait till senior year, Miss”. Unfortunately, some kids believe that videogames, social life, and for some, extracurricular activities must take precedence. Those that wait don’t realize; or aren’t concerned with what the consequences of waiting will bring.
For many, it’s not that they don’t want to go to college, it’s just that they image it is as easy as picking a pair of jeans from their closet.
As parents, we can help, by planning ahead. Talk to your child, and set a deadline to discuss interests, and conduct internet research of colleges that offer programs to meet the needs of the child’s interest. Talk to the school counselor, and investigate what has already been accomplished at the school level. Many conduct interest surveys which may guide you both on the right path. You can also visit the library, and check out books that will help guide you with the application process. After selecting the best fits, begin the application process together, with your findings.
It’s also important to start young, by visiting college campuses. Kids get excited when they feel the vibe of the campus. Visiting college fairs are fun too, because the representatives entice the kids with al the features they offer, and you can get lot’s of free pens.
Fortunately, my prayers were heard, and after visiting a college fair though a local program, he is psyched about it. Now, it’s time to dedicate my free time, to helping him search and write scholarships. I should have started researching the night I delivered him. Yale is going to be expensive!
Thinking about college
@ 5:55 am 07/22/08 by joodzki6Good education base on my opinion will start from us parents. The encouragement to go to school, how beautiful it is to go to school, meet new people and new friends and ofcourse learning new knowledge will help our children get the willingness to pursue their studies. Though to some are difficult, but i think it's our mission and obligation to bring them to school for a brighter future for them...no matter how expensive it is...we should work hard for it.
I have my daughter now in kindergarten and as early as now, i make it a point that she gets excited everyday to go to her school. Everyday after her school, i teach her with her homework before she can play with other children. One way of encouraging her to do better in school is to give her reward. I always told her that if she's good in school...i will buy her a barbie that she wants.
Right now, i'm thinking of her in college...i'm wondering what she will take up. Thinking of her in college, makes me feel excited everyday. And i won't get tired of encouraging her for that, because i want to give her a better future..and i think all parents think that way too.